Soulmate is not a choice

     ever thought of being in a deep relationship with someone ?
ever felt that your soul is incomplete without him/her ?

that special someone you recently knew , feels like you ve known him for a life time , the connection you established the feeling of overwhelming where you can be yourself when he is around , no anxiety , no stress ... just  a quality time together , could be the most joyful state you ever experienced
     a soulmate cant necessarily be a girl you like or from the opposite sex , but if thats the case you might think that he or she sould stick forever by yourside in a way that strongly consider it as a commitment .

there is a huge difference between a soulmate and a life partener , but technically a soulmate can evolve to become a life companion , if that soulmate completes you .
People are in a continuous search of soulmates, but you cant find yours because he or she will find a way to be with you , its up to fate, to find that unique person , in the  perfect time and place , but that is not a coincidence finding him , coz its all been written  , some say your religious state cant be complete without the life partner , thats why people always rush to marry , but the question that rises here is why people get divorced even when they thought they found their soulmates?

a soulmate cannot stay forever , if you thought so , then you missed the point of having a soulmate 
their only perpous of existing in your life is to make you learn , if the cours ended they may leave but with a trace engraved  upon your soul 
so dont feel bad if your soulmate walks away from your life , because the time has come for another lesson ,so move on and dont look behind
MY soulmate , my best friend , i ve known him for at least 10 years , back then it seems like he is the only one who understands me , with him i become so open , so vulnerable.
he is a perfect match for me ,and when he is gone , i felt hallow inside , huge gab in my heart , but whenever i ask my self why he is gone , i start to think maybe its just an eara for developping emotions , pure and vivid , he was more than family to me , maybe now its the time to experiance things without him , something else , some other level of learning , maybe i felt like all the people are are drifting away from me  for a reason , all these are signs for somthing big coming towards me 
i dont know what it is but i ve got to be prepared , i need time for meditation , to study my self and focusing on developing my potentials 

after all it sucks not having a best friend , but make sure if you find yourself one day alone , that you are prepared to face the challenge heading your way .


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