escalation process in a love affair and who is the dominating sex

   Beginnings could be harsh sometimes , its like being in a boat and all you seek in land .all the ups and downs ...the swingings of the unstable canoe you are in will finally set the anchor to safety soil .
once you are there , a whole new adventure will begin but who said that exploring is free of danger .
   In a relationship , the two sexes are very anxious to explore one another where its physically or spiritually .every one in his own way ...thats why dating several persons is extremely important because it gets you to know your type and being extremely selective finding idealism .
So who is with the dominating attitude in a relationship , setting the rules and causing all the stress and longing .?
of course there is a part who's taking the lead
MEN are naturally leaders but in worst case scenario, women intervene in the most delicate and fragile stuff such as commitments .
Women tend to be indifferent when a man shows intrests in her, she does nt jump into his arms claiming her love but instead ,even that she is into him , she shows absolutly contradiction of what she is feeling .
This strategy is suppose to show that she is nt an  easy catch and the male should make effort winning her heart in an impressive way , after all men are visual and girls are sensual .
Now if the man did show serious intentions of building a love affair with a  woman , it will be further more obstacles awaits , for instance not picking up the phone ,ignoring texts , late and cold replies ...
all these things woman do to make her pray week and vulnerable , like a black widow she will finally get him and possess him after the capture in her sticky web .

when it comes to relationships women tend to be preservative and cautious as you can see ,the consequencesof failing a relationship could be deadly .
Men are generally facing trouble understanding woman unlike of whats commun , women are extremly clever so men could not underestimate her potentials , its also known that women dont have the same freedom as men , I say its an advantage not a drawback , she could use that factor to spread her power over men , her beauty does nt necessarily reflects an angelic image of her flawless innocent spirit so that could be missleading for some men .
some say that woman are really powerful and i agree  but if you did it notice that the time factor is in your side then you are a jerk , they might be powerful now but as soon they turns 30 , missing around is over and hunting season is ON , so strike them when they are week.